In a reframing of the Buddhist meditation on death, I have often immersed myself in visual and written arts reflecting the inevitable.
This practice has taken many turns, one of which was deciding to have a natural burial at Prairie Creek Conservation Cemetery.
Now in my 84th year--though no threat looms with immediacy--it's no longer possible to ignore the eventuality of my own death. And I love the idea of going back to earth in the woods, with a natural marker.
This practice has taken many turns, one of which was deciding to have a natural burial at Prairie Creek Conservation Cemetery.
Now in my 84th year--though no threat looms with immediacy--it's no longer possible to ignore the eventuality of my own death. And I love the idea of going back to earth in the woods, with a natural marker.
Without the barrier of a coffin between me and the earth, my molecules can easily mix with those who've preceded me, and in the moment of dying I anticipate imagining the company I'll join. My growing list of those who've preceded me includes dear family, friends, pets--and also poets, writers, artists, spiritual teachers, psychologists, scientists, and musicians who have brought beauty and inspiration to my long life.
This practice of drawing others' spirits to me is a reminder to simply rejoice in what flows from intuition. Often, I've experienced the emotions of my son, a friend, or a client prior to contact -- not always realizing the mood's source until later. A friend I told about this said, "They're playing the strings of your guitar." I so resonate with that image, which echoes my lifelong favorite among Rainer Maria Rilke's poems, "Lovesong" (the original "Liebeslied" follows the translation by M.D. Herter Norton):
How shall I withhold my soul so thatit does not touch on yours? How shall Iuplift it over you to other things?Ah willingly would I by somelost thing in the dark give it harborin an unfamiliar silent placethat does not vibrate on when your depths vibrate.Yet everything that touches us, you and me,takes us together as a bow's stroke does,that out of two strings draws a single voice.Upon what instrument are we two spanned?And what player has us in his hand?O sweet song.Wie soll ich meine Seele halten, dasssie nicht an deine rührt? Wie soll ich siehinheben über dich zu andern Dingen?Ach gerne möcht ich sie bei irgendetwasVerlorenem im Dunkel unterbringenan einer fremden stillen Stelle, dienicht weiterschwingt, wenn deine Tiefen schwingen.Doch alles, was uns anrührt, dich und mich,nimmt uns zusammen wie ein Bogenstrich,der aus zwei Saiten eine Stimme zieht.Auf welches Instrument sind wir gespannt?Und welcher Spieler hat uns in der Hand?O süsses Lied.
Everything that touches us takes us together as does a bow's stroke that draws a single voice from two strings.
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